How to Get Sex on the First Date, Here’s How You Get Lucky!

sex on the first date

First Impressions
Hooking up on the first date doesn’t have to be rocket science, but you need to get off on the right foot. You must give off a relaxed and charming first impression, shower and shave before you leave your pad. Choose to wear something smart, but feel comfortable because if you are not confident and comfortable with yourself then your date won’t feel this either. Remember your hot date wants to feel instantly relaxed, fell like she has made the right decision and most certainly feel relieved that your not a creep and in for a good time.

Touch and Compliment
When you first meet always stand, and give her a hug, not a handshake. Then pay her a compliment on her new hair, or the way she looks, what she is wearing etc. This touch and compliment approach will instantly put her at ease and also set the tone for the rest of the night. You want to open the boundaries for touching and compliments, allowing her to feel comfortable enough to touch and compliment back throughout the night. Learning how to get laid on the first night means showing her that you are sexually attracted if she didn’t want to be there, she most certainly wouldn’t be!

Be a Gent
How to get a girl to sleep with you starts with you being a gentleman, treating them mean to keep them keen doesn’t work so well in the short space of time we’re talking about. Gentlemen sell, and you are a salesman, act as if she is your number one client in business. Ushering her to her seat and gentle touches across the elbow and hand as you guide her with keep the connection high. Remember your selling a product, your product being confidence, sex appeal and attraction, get selling and making your bonus.

Keep it Casual
During your date, her favorite topic of conversation is more than likely to be herself. Again she will feel comfortable talking about topics that are closer to home, so ask questions about her, where she grew up, her schools, hobbies, and interests etc. This will also show intent to learn about her, be an active listener, make eye contact and smile. Building rapport provides structure to having sex on the first date, keeping it casual and flirting with touching will help put her at ease.

When it’s time to leave don’t ask her, tell her, “let’s get out of here” or “you wanna get going?!”, these are statements and lead the evening back to yours. Your neutral casual tone will keep her at ease, and when she asks “where are we going next”, with the same composure casually state “my place”.